Q & A

Definitely, and happily! With enough notice, I can make myself available to travel to/with you to most places in the world :)

If you ask for an incall, sometimes an additional fee to cover hotel cost will apply. This will need to be paid upfront alongside the deposit. Sometimes I’m able to offer incalls without additional fee, in 4-star hotels or apartments.

Outcalls are definitely my preference, to 4 or 5-star hotels, apartments or residences (visiting your home, if we’ve never met before, will only be possible after screening with ID).

Yes. I love nothing more than getting ready and excited for a genuine confirmed date :) Payment methods I accept are beem and European or Australian bank transfer. In a situation where you have major privacy concerns or no access to private accounts, I can receive deposits via crypto or giftcards. If you don’t have (and can’t organise) that, the only circumstance under which I may waive the deposit, is when you provide at least two references from providers who know you well and are willing to confirm that.

Deposits are around 30% of my rate. If travel or incall fees apply, they are to be paid upfront, alongside the deposit.

In the event of cancellation by you, the deposit is kept. If you cancel a booking less than 72 hours in advance, you need to cover 50% of my rate.

However, as a person accustomed to various levels of chaos, I understand that extremely unforeseeable things happen and I'm happy to be as flexible as possible to offer you an opportunity to reschedule, instead of cancelling.

In the unlikely case that I have to cancel our appointment, I will refund the deposit in full and do my best to organise another time with you.

Yes and yes and yes! I love threesomes, moresomes and parties. I’m queer, pansexual, and I very happily see couples (or larger love constellations) of any gender combo. If you’d like to book me with someone that I already have a beautiful flow with, many of my closest loved ones are also providers and I love playing with them. This is the easiest to organise in Narrm, Brussels and Berlin, but I’m always very happy to make new gorgeous industry friends around the world, so I’m happy for you to book me with someone of your choosing.

Good question! Sexual health is important to me, for the sake of myself, yourself and everyone else concerned. I will not engage in uncovered penetrative sex, and I will block you, if you ask for that. Uncovered oral is entirely at my discretion, will depend on how well we know each other, your hygiene, your testing etc.

In terms of submissive play, I won't allow breath play, restraint or gagging on me on a first date. I'm open to that further down the line, I actually love being tied up, but it requires a level of trust established between us. I don’t do passive sports or degradation. And while I like a little bruise to serve as a reminder of an intense and passionate encounter, leaving marks has to be discussed prior and isn’t always going to be possible.

In terms of dominant play, I am not a professionally trained dominatrix. If you are looking for encounters that require a lot of experience, gear and specialised knowledge, I suggest you contact one of so many incredible Mistresses available out there. Otherwise I’m generally open to cater to your kinks and fetishes (except raceplay).

And lastly, consent, always! :) I’m entitled to refuse or stop our date/interaction, sexual or otherwise, if I am made to feel unsafe. This is really dependent on you and how you behave.

You can find my wishlist here, and you can send me some love before, during or after our date.

Otherwise I appreciate gift cards, especially for slow fashion, cosmetics, books and travels. I also appreciate donations to Palestine, anti-colonial, migrant, queer, feminist and sex-worker struggles made by you on my behalf or donations towards political organising that I’m actively a part of. Just ask me about it :)

No, I don’t offer that.

I'm sorry that this is even a question. And I'm truly, truly pissed at all the oppressive structures that make anyone compelled to ask. I do not refuse service to anyone ever on the basis of their identity or circumstance (I may refuse service on the basis of oppressive or violent behaviors or choices). You absolutely do not have to disclose your race, ethnicity, age (as long as you are above the age of consent, of course) or any other identifier to me. The exception is when you have accessibility needs that I need to know of to accommodate you at a location or if you have a medical condition that you’d like to disclose in order for me to be able to cater to your needs as best possible. Having said that, I’m happy for you to share anything that feels important to you and I will always endeavor to be attentive of how that could impact our interaction.

We could get into philosophising about what reality is in the first place and whether anyone actually knows, but as far as it impacts you here and now, I am severely real, and certainly real enough for my blood to boil a little at this question! I will not send you any more „pics”, because it defies logic that they should act as any evidence. If you are still doubting, you can request a short video call of non-erotic nature, which you will have to pay for.

I’d like for you to share your deepest dreams and desires…

Just joking!

Or am I?

My booking section provides some indication of what I need from you. If you contact me via phone or email, I will ask very similar questions. If you are asking for a kinky/BDMS session, it will never be sufficient to write something absurdly generic, like “I want you to dominate me”.