Definitely, and happily! You may notice that most of my work happens in the context of touring and traveling. I semi-regularly frequent the cities of Narrm/Melbourne, Zurich, Brussels, Berlin and London, while occasionally visiting other locations in Europe and beyond. Most of the rest of my time I spend remotely and engaged in other super important things :) With enough notice, I can make myself available to travel to/with you to most other places in the world.

I don’t have a home incall location and I’m not always able to offer incalls at the standard rate. If I’m to organise a location for our date, sometimes an additional fee to cover hotel or apartment rental will apply. This will need to be paid upfront alongside the deposit. On some tours I’m able to offer incalls without additional fee.

Outcalls are my preference, to 4 and 5 star hotels, except when we’ve known each other for a while. I won’t visit you at your home for our first time.

Yes. I love nothing more than getting ready and excited for a genuine confirmed date :) If all of you were so kind to treat us and our time with the utmost respect that we deserve for making dreams come true, I would not bother with deposits. Until then, I have to protect my precious time. In a situation where you have major privacy concerns or no access to private accounts, I can receive deposits via crypto. If you don’t have (and can’t organise) that, the only circumstance under which I may waive the deposit, is when you provide at least two references from providers who know you well and are willing to confirm that.

Deposits are around 30% of my rate. If travel or incall fees apply, they are to be paid upfront, alongside the deposit.

In the event of cancellation by you, the deposit is not refunded. If you cancel a booking less than 5 days in advance, a cancellation fee of GBP/CHF/EUR100 or AUD200 applies.

However, as a person accustomed to various levels of chaos, I understand that extremely unforeseeable things happen sometimes, so I'm happy to be as flexible as possible and offer you an opportunity to reschedule, instead of cancelling.

In the unlikely case that I have to cancel our appointment, I will refund the deposit in full and do my best to offer you another opportunity to meet.

Yes and yes and yes! I love threesomes, moresomes and parties. I’m queer, pansexual, and I very happily see couples (or larger love constellations) of any gender combo. If you’d like to book me with someone that I already have a beautiful flow with, many of my closest loved ones are also providers and I love playing with them. This is the easiest to organise in Narrm, Brussels and Berlin, but I’m always very happy to make new gorgeous industry friends around the world, so I’m happy for you to book me with someone of your choosing.

Good question. I have well defined sexual boundaries. Sexual health is very important to me, for the sake of myself, yourself and everyone else concerned. I will not engage in any uncovered penetrative sex, and I will block you as soon as you ask for that. Uncovered oral is entirely at my discretion and will depend on how well we know each other, your hygiene and preferably a recent test result.

In terms of submissive play, I won't allow breath play, restraint or gagging on first dates. I'm open to doing that further down the line, I actually love Shibari, but it requires a level of trust established between us. I don’t do passive sports or degradation. And while I like a little bruise to serve as a reminder of an intense and passionate encounter, leaving marks has to be discussed prior and isn’t always going to be possible.

In terms of dominant play, I am not a professionally trained dominatrix. If you are looking for encounters that require a lot of experience, gear and specialised knowledge, I suggest you contact one of so many incredible Mistresses available out there. Otherwise I’m generally open to cater to your kinks and fetishes (except raceplay).

And lastly, I reserve the right to refuse specific services if I feel unsafe or uncomfortable about them in the moment. This is really dependent on your conduct.

You can find my wishlist here, and you can send me some love before, during or after our date. Otherwise I appreciate gift cards, especially for slow fashion, cosmetics, books and travels. I also appreciate donations to Palestine, anti-colonial, migrant, queer, feminist and sex-worker struggles made by you on my behalf or donations towards political organising that I’m actively a part of. Just ask me about it :)

No, I don’t offer that.

I'm sorry that this is even a question. And I'm truly pissed at all the oppressive structures and individual behaviours that make you compelled to ask. I won't pretend I'm not aware that there are providers discriminating on the basis of race, ethnicity, looks, disability, age etc. But it's totally not my vibe! You absolutely do not have to disclose your race, ethnicity, age (as long as you are above the age of consent, of course) or any other identifier to me. The exception is when you have accessibility needs that I need to know of to accommodate you at a location or if you have a medical condition that you’d like to disclose in order for me to be able to cater to your needs as best possible. Having said that, I’m happy for you to share anything that feels important to you and I will always endeavor to be attentive of how that could impact our interaction.

We could get into philosophising about what reality is in the first place and whether anyone actually knows, but as far as it impacts you, I am severely real, and certainly enough for my blood to boil a little at this question ;o I will not send you any more pics, because it defies logic! If you are still doubting, you can request a short video call of non-erotic nature, which you will have to pay for.

I’d like for you to share your deepest dreams and desires…

Just joking!

Or am I? ;)

My booking (Get in Touch) section provides some indication of what I need from you. If you contact me via phone or email, I will ask similar questions. If you are asking for kinky/BDMS sessions, it will never be sufficient to write something like “I want you to dominate me”.